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My Exgirlfriend Won't Let Go!
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Dear Rob,
I need your help on this one.
Well here is the
situation:
I know this girl from high school, you know we when to high
school together and even to the same college. But we were
nothing more than friends through those years.
When I graduated
in 2004 I hadn't seen her since until now this past September in
07. We started dating.
Everything was
great, I was really interested in her and she was felt the same
way. The problem is that we both lost kind of interest on each
other. This just happen three weeks ago.
We talked and
decide to be just friends again. We both agree on that and that
was it.
The next day she
was texting me in the morning just to say good morning and later
throughout the day she'd send other text messages just to find
out how my day was going so far.
Well I have to
admit that at first I did not want to reply back because we
decide that we are just friends. I didn't want to be rude so I
did reply to some of her texts.
Anyway this
continued for the rest of the week until I decided not to reply
back but she still sends text messages every other day. Now I am
at the point of whether or not to mention something to her in
regards that I no longer want to talked to her or text message
her.
So my question is Why is this girl keeps calling and texting
after we broke up?
Please help on
this one. I'm kind of confused.
Thank You,
Mike
Hi Mike,
I think it’s the fact that you were her only confidant while you
were together. Now she doesn’t want to lose that security even
if you’re not dating any more.
She just can’t let go but she doesn’t want to have what she
wanted, you.
These are usually the types of girls that end up being abused by
their boyfriends/husbands because they need so desperately to be
loved that they’ll take any type of punishment as justified.
And don’t get me wrong, she is punishing herself by staying in
contact with you.
Even if you don’t reply the answer to her texts and calls are in
her head.
She keeps the story alive in her mind.
Just stay silent. She will find a guy to throw herself at and
you’ll finally be out of the picture but my guess is that it’ll
take about 6 weeks.
Email me then and let me know how things are going.
Best wishes,
Rob.
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