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Will She Become My Girlfriend?
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Dear Rob,
I'm a 17 year old guy, and I like this girl. The problem is, I
don't know if she just wants to be friends or does she like me
the same way I like her.
Here is some
background:
She doesn't have
a lot of "girl" friends, most of her friends are guys. I started
talking to her about a month ago at school. She was in a past
relationship for 8 months until they broke up. But then they got
back together for about 2 days and split again, and I think its
for good this time. Well anyway we talked for about two weeks
before going out to eat together, and we have been to dinner a
couple times after that.
On Fridays I go pick her up and go hang out with my friends.
Sometimes we will all go and get something quick to eat. Well,
my friends sometimes like to tease me, so we were all in line
about to order our food when my buddy ask me, "You paying for
your girls food right?", and when he said that, she said very
snappy, "I'm not his girl, there is nothing going on between
us". And I was kind of confused because I had thought we were
"dating". Also, sometimes I will do something nice for her like
bring her a biscuit in the morning before school starts, buy her
a drink if she has no money. And she will say, "You're so nice,
I'm glad your my "friend", or something to that affect.
Now it has been about a month since I first met her and we are
hanging out more than ever. She invited me over to her house to
eat dinner, and she goes with me about everywhere. She calls me
every night and sometimes in the morning as I'm getting up. She
is always talking about how much we have in common, and how were
almost like "brother and sister" (I don't know what that means).
I'm tired of having to correct people when they call her my
girlfriend. I like her as a girlfriend, but I'm confused of how
she likes me.
Thanks for your time Rob,
Me
Hi Me,
It’s obvious to me that you haven’t yet had a girlfriend.
So this is what
you do… stop talking to her. Not in a mean way but just in a
“I’m busy and I’ll call you back” type thing.
Depending how she
reacts will tell you if she wants to be your girlfriend or if
she still thinks of you as a “brother”. (“Brother” means that
she’s waiting for her ex-boyfriend to start dating her,
usually!)
Don’t be
confused, a lot of guys get caught in the middle of women (of
all ages) play with their (ex-)boyfriends and get burned in the
process.
You make her
chase you a little bit, not talking for all hours on the phone,
walk-by hellos in the hall at school… just play loose and don’t
hang on everything she does.
If she is ready
to date you, she’ll get real angry that you’re ditching her… if
she doesn’t, well you never had a chance and she was just
killing time with you until her ex-boyfriend came back to her.
Best wishes,
Rob.
PS.
Guys, deal with your inner wussy by reading the "Double
Your Dating" ebook.
Girls, learn how to deal with this type of guy better and
actually be able to get the right man in your life by reading "Catch
Him & Keep Him".
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