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New Year's Eve Kiss Off
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Dear Rob,
I read some of your work and enjoy your advice.
I'm in what I
call complicated relationship which I thought could work out on
my own, which is not working so I need your advice.
I met this girl
just over four months ago and fell head over heels. I never let
this happen to myself before, needless to say I was kind of
enjoying the single life since my last relationship two years
old.
The first couple
months were great getting to know each other and talked very
openly to how we felt for each other, it was going great. Then
she got to a unsure place which again we talked about and sorted
out, so I thought. She told me she was still very much
interested just to take things a little slower. Her career means
a lot along with spending time with her friends.
I realize this
because she's younger and I feel the same way for my own needs.
There is a five year difference in age between us, myself being
older which doesn't bother either of us. I guess I'm to the
point were I'm confused to how much I should chase her. A couple
years ago I would of been gone knowing that it takes two and not
wanting to waste each others time.
The problem now
is I never dated a girl I liked this much before, never knew I
could like a girl this much. Again from what she tells me she
feels the same way.
We went out for
New Year's Eve a couple of days ago and she ignored me most of
the night hanging out with her guy friends, which I've never
met.
She didn't give
me a chance even to be around her, I spent the night with two of
her friends while she danced and chatted it up. The night ended
earlier for me with a kiss, hug and a drive safely home for we
live an hour away from each other.
I haven't spoken
to her since. I could go on much longer but I hope this is
enough for your judgment.
So their it is
Rob what do you think. Thanks for your time of reading my
problem.
Hi,
That is one sad story.
You’ve offered her so much, and so she could be a good friend,
she told you the same things.
But let me tell you, her interest in you is nowhere near what
yours is in her.
By her ignoring you on New Year’s Eve, she was screaming loud
and clear “Leave me alone!” you just couldn’t hear it because
you’re so wrapped up in your own feelings about how she should
feel for you.
That’s right, you like her and you think she likes you, more
than is really happening.
I wouldn’t bother calling her again. She’ll just use you for
another drive somewhere so she can meet up with the guy’s that
really has her interest.
The hug and kiss on New Year's Eve? That was the clincher. She’s
done with you.
Best wishes,
Rob.
PS.
Guys, deal with your inner wussy by reading the "Double
Your Dating" ebook.
Girls, learn how to deal with this type of guy better and
actually be able to get the right man in your life by reading "Catch
Him & Keep Him".
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