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Five Signs She’s Going To Say Yes
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Dear Reader,
The biggest hurdle most guys have about asking a woman for a
date is their own self-confidence; their own fear of being
rejected. Once you can conquer that fear of women you can ask
anything of anyone.
Look at yourself and how you talk with other men. Basically you
treat other men you talk to as equals. I have to ask, are women
that different?
No, they aren’t.
Once you can speak with women honestly, comfortably and as an
equal, your personal success with women will skyrocket.
And, as a bonus, you’ll be able to ask her for a date within
minutes of walking up to her and starting a conversation.
Now that we’ve got that out of the way:
THE FACTS
A woman’s body language will tell you when it’s the right time
to ask her for a date.
Small touches on the arm, on your shoulder. When she’s standing
facing you, she’ll pull her shoulders back, chest forward, and
arms open at her sides or if she’s seated her arms will be
comfortably placed on the table, maybe apart, maybe with fingers
playing with her fingers or hair.
A woman will look at you, in the eyes, and turn her head
downward. Then up again, to be certain you’re still there,
showing interest in her
Crossed arms are a sign of defence, she’s protecting her from
you. Use humorous, cocky conversation at this time to relax her.
Looking away, over your shoulder or twisting away to look behind
herself or away from you are also defence and defiance body
language motions. You’re not gaining any attraction points here,
you may have to take a walk and try again later. But don’t give
up, just give her a “pause” from you.
When a woman is defensive or defiant, she’s looking for a better
catch, a more interesting man.
By taking a “pause” from her you’ll allow her the space and time
she needs to confirm to herself that you are the right catch.
THE FIVE SIGNS
Watch her body language for these signs:
Eyes looking at yours, quickly, then looking down for a short
time, then back at you;
Small touches to your arm, shoulder or hand;
Sitting close together she’ll brush her leg against yours,
slightly, not hard;
Laughing with you as you make jokes and actively responding to
your conversation;
Keeping her arms in an open posture, playing with her hair,
fingers, straightening her clothes, the glass on the table and
other open, nervous, preening movements.
FINAL COMMENT
Within a few minutes of getting the “green light” of her body
language you should be asking for your first date. A simple
get-together for a coffee or snack within the next three days.
And don’t forget to her phone number or email to follow-up with
her on the second day to confirm the date!
Have a great time!
Rob.
PS. Guys, want more great tips for dating?
Visit:
www.DoubleMyDating.com!
Girls, visit:
www.YourFirstMoves.com!
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