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Is He
Interested Or Just Playing Games?
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Hi
Rob,
There's a guy at work whom I've been flirting with for a while
now. However, last week the flirting intensified and I asked him
to lunch.
Although things
didn't progress any further we both seemed to have a good time.
Here's the problem...
I feel like this
guy is playing games with me. He is somewhat cold and distant
most of the day and then by the end of the day he makes some
comments to give me an indication that he's interested again.
Like saying how good I look or how beautiful I am, etc.
Since that lunch
though, he's made no further effort to ask me out, get my phone
number or anything. So is he really interested or just playing
games?
Sincerely,
Frustrated in Florida
Hi Frustrated
in Florida,
You tell me that you asked him out? And now he's distant?
There are two
possible reasons that I can think of (although there may be
hundreds, really):
1. He's scared of you. Seriously, you've shown yourself
independent, straightforward and not to be messed with. He's
tried to flirt and pretend to be a 'player' and your asking him
out has shut him down. Good riddance to him.
2. He's a momma's
boy and is waiting for you to make the next move again. If that
is the case, involvement will get really complicated. He could
turn on you, abuse-wise. I'd give him a wide berth and let him
grow up.
It's good that
you've learned these things early in going out with him rather
than later.
Best wishes,
Rob.
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