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I Want
To Date My Ex Again! Help!
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Dear Rob,
I could really use some advice on this one.
I dated my
ex-boyfriend exclusively for a little over a year. Prior to our
intimate relationship, we were friends ever since the eighth
grade. I will be twenty in February. I was the one who broke it
off during the summer of last year. I had plans for myself to go
away to school and I wanted to know what it felt like without
him at my side.
I am young and
very independent!
He was one of the
reasons why I decided to stay at home for the first year. I feel
madly in love with him and then I broke his heart. We did not
speak to each other very much throughout the 8 months that has
passed but I never stopped thinking about him.
This New Years, I
ran into him and his new girlfriend! I was so polite and sweet
to the both of them but I was crying and jealous on the inside.
I still have
feelings for him, I still love him and I know he does too. We
talked and he said he will always be in love with me but he will
not dump his new girl and run away with me.
That wasn't the
answer I wanted.
I even tried to
kiss him and he wouldn't kiss me back. It hurts. He was the
first guy I ever loved. We knew each other so well that we would
finish each others sentences. And how he made me laugh... I gave
so much of me to him, why won't he forgive me and give me
another chance? What do you think?
Lost
Hi Lost,
For good or bad, you made your choice last year. Now you have to
live with it. If he were to leave his current girlfriend just to
be with you again because "you miss him" you'd be a home-breaker
and he'd be an ass.
He's living with
your decision and moved on, so should you.
You said he was
your first intimate partner. That's why there are those jealous
feelings involved. You made a mistake then being with him and
are also living through that mistake now that you're not
together.
Again, he's moved
on, so should you.
There are plenty
of guys out there, I honestly hope that you'll find another with
such high standards.
Best wishes,
Rob.
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